Real Sex VS Porn Sex

I want you to consider the above picture for a few seconds. When you have gotten over the excitement of the fact  it is a pretty girl being fucked by two cocks by two guys in very awkward positions to achieve the shot then I’m sure you will understand that this is not real sex and nor does the image purport to be anything than what it is: A pornographic picture carefully orchestrated for a product designed to sexually engage you and make money.

For starters, if this was real sex achieved by two regular normal guys then all you’d see was two hairy arses and nothing else. One good reason alone why porn sex is better than real

I’m  compelled to state the obvious after watching a video on YouTube about this topic that has gotten over 6 million views already. The video was well made in that it used food to demonstrate its points and well intentioned in its purpose to inform the public but then its also very worrying to think there are people who seem to strive  and crave for this “porn sex” in real life.

Someone should make another video showing the realities of porn sex which can be frustratingly difficult to direct and produce for a number of reasons, the first reason being that it requires real people, men and women to make it happen. Lets not forget that these men and women happen to be part of the same human race as those who are viewing it and like a disclaimer for a dangerous movie or TV show: “Leave it to the professionals and dont try this at home folks”

Porn doesnt have to defend itself. Porn doesnt have to answer for the emotional deficiencys of those who watch it. Porn is a product designed to sexually stimulate the consumer in the same way a big Hollyood movie is designed t entertain you. Therefore the peope who are chosen to do it have to posesses the qualities consumers will findd desirable nd perform the kind of acts the consumers will enjoy, otherwise why would anyone want to buy it? Its been sai many times that normal folk dont wnt to buy product with people that look like them in it. Everyhtig has to be large than life. The media and entertianment industry has taught us that and no where is it demonstrated better than in he very porn we are watching.

Ive always said that the great thing about porn (be it magazines, pictures or video) is that to those enjoying it, it doeesnt answer back, it doesnt judge you. It is what it is:

Porn

It just feels like I am saying the unsaid in the midst of all this anti porning going on. In recent years I have seen examples of porn sex creep into  younger friends coming up to me bragging excitedly that they had their first threesome and that they achieved double penetration with a couple of  guys they met on holiday. The reality of this story is unlike porn though. She ended up seeing both guys who were socially awkward around her after awhile because they both wanted her for themselves and were in competition for her attention. One more so than the other by the sounds of it. In the world of porn they’d be high fiving each other and fast forwarded to the next porn scene.

Months later she is seeing only one of them (whom she suspects) has aspergers because of his ability to emote with her. The other guy probably distanced himself from her because of the threesome they had (woe betide if there was any sword fighting involved as that usually results in counselling and introspective questions on ones own sexual orientation). The reason I mention this is to highlight one of the problems that in life, whether you are emotionally involved with anyone or not, it gets complicated when feelings that come into play. Something that is not required of those starring in porn films

Its rare that you can get into a threesome for the social thrill of it and just walk away thinking it was all a good bit of fun. Most people in real life will want  some more of the same and thats the difference with porn. The models make it look so easy because it is their job to do so but it so isnt easy. No one considers the models efforts to prepare for an anal/ double penetration/ arse to mouth followed by double or more cum shots in the face and mouth.

My friends double pentration adventure is not as common as you might think, hence her excitement that she had done something so advanced sexually and I strongly suspect she enjoyed it on a physical level but this is not the holy grail for a lot of women and that is what we should not forget. The fundamental basics of all sex starts with feelings. Not necessarily loving feelings but feelings in general is what complicates anything  depending on the individual of course. There are some couples I’ve found whose lives supercede  porn star expectations by their life styles but I always put that down to them being an exceptions to the rule. Normally you’ll find they have a very loving and trusting relationship to explore such sex lives to the extreme

The real world can not handle a porn star lifestyle despite what they tell you. There are too many guilt complexes and feelings of shame and if you dont have any of this then society or those in your social circle try to make you feel its wrong. I’ve seen it so many times over the years. The first girl a new budding stud has ever had sex with ends up being  in a relationship. Is it any wonder that outside of sex they usually find they have nothing else in common and the relationship (or lack of one) results in a break down

So , hoo-ray to that video for pointing the differences out but they failed to make a note of the emotion factor, the awkwardness of achieving porn sex positions  and all the rest but fair dues, there isnt to much you can get in a video running at 1 minute and 50 seconds